Was Youtubing for Deliver Us From Evil movie review but i end up with this documentary about a Catholic priest who molested children (in which he didn’t realise it was molestation because he was molested by a priest when he was a young boy and assumed it was a norm).

What really got me into the waterworks was when one the father of the victim cried. It just broke me.
And suddenly made me miss my late father.
I miss him.

However, because of what happened, the father’s victim immediately became an Atheist.
The victim cried when he said it out loud.
It’s sad to see her reaction when… i think she felt responsible for her father’s disbelief in God just because of what happened to her.
I’m Agnostic, and that also made me feel sad for her :-/

It is such a good documentary.

(Source: youtube.com)

poor fella but how sweet of him/her to allow him so

poor fella but how sweet of him/her to allow him so

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lohifoster:

A woman cries as she holds the hand of her dead mother buried in mud after an earthquake and a tsunami in Rikuzentakata City, Iwate Prefecture, northeastern Japan. (Reuters)

lohifoster:

A woman cries as she holds the hand of her dead mother buried in mud after an earthquake and a tsunami in Rikuzentakata City, Iwate Prefecture, northeastern Japan. (Reuters)

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prediction will come true!

prediction will come true!

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Things Not to Say to a Survivor of a Sexual Crime

Please don’t…


1. Ask if we liked it. 
No one likes being physically overpowered.

2. Tell us “it’s just sex”. 
Rape is a crime of power, control, and extreme violence where sex is used as a weapon against someone weaker. It is not sex.

3. Tell us how we could have avoided it. 
Believe me, if we could have prevented it we would have.

4. Make fun of us. 
We have faced an attacker who sometimes is willing to kill and have survived. What’s there to make fun of?

5. Tell us it would never happen to you and why. 
We didn’t think we would become statistics either.

6. There’s no need to avoid us. 
We’re still the same person you’ve come to care about or learned to care about. We’ve just been unspeakably hurt. We’re not contagious.

7. Please don’t treat us like we have the plague. 
Chances are we don’t. Do you?

8. God isn’t punishing us for some misdeed by allowing this to happen. 
God helps us heal. He doesn’t send someone to hurt His people.

9. Don’t tell us it was God’s will we were raped. 
Do tell us it was God’s will that we survived!

10. Don’t disbelieve us. 
According to survey respondents being disbelieved is a survivor’s greatest fear.

11. Don’t tell us that survivors make up tales for attention. 
According to The National Coalition Against Sexual Assault false rape reports only happen 2% of the time. That’s a 98% chance that no matter how strange it sounds to you the rape isn’t being fabricated.

12. Don’t tell me not to talk about it. 
Yes it upsets me to talk about it but that is the only way 
that I can sort through it.

13. Don’t say, ‘it happened on a date, that’s common”. 
When you say that it belittles me and my feelings about the assault. It’s not common because it happened to me and I’m not a statistic.

14. Don’t say “other people have it worse off than you”. 
I’m not “other people”. I’m me.

Some other suggestions for Partners of Survivors that may help:

11. Don’t feel you need to retaliate against our attacker. 
We know the perpetrator is capable of violence. Please don’t make us worry about you being hurt. We’ll feel more secure knowing you’ll remain in one piece.

12. Don’t blame us for what happened. 
It’s not our fault.

13. Don’t tell us to “get over it”. 
We would if we could and we are trying our best. Support us as we struggle to find our way again.

14. Don’t tell us to to put what happened out of our minds. 
It’s not that simple.

15. Don’t tell us “it’s no big deal”. 
Rape is an enormous challenge to heal from. It haunts even our dreams.

16. Try to understand our need to feel safe. 
If we disagree about safety issues in the future please realize that what may sounds strange to you may help us feel safe.

17. Don’t say something like, “Well, it’s been six months (a year, 5 years etc.) and ask if we’re “over it” yet. 
Chances are that we may not be ready to go back to life as it was. We may never be ready and may have to create a new life for ourselves as we learn to be safe again. 

18. Don’t tell us we are weak because it impacts our life. 
We are stronger than words can describe.

19. Don’t ask us what you are supposed to do to get past what happened to us. 
We aren’t sure what we’re going to do.

20. Don’t ask us if we did anything on purpose that led to the rape. 
We didn’t do anything except survive.

21. Don’t ask us if we couldn’t have done something differently during the attack. 
We made the best choices we could to survive. We got away without being killed didn’t we? That’s proof our instincts were right. Please help us learn to realize that ourselves.

22. Don’t tell us that it’s not rape because we knew the attacker. 
Numerous studies tell us that our perpetrators are more likely to be known to us than unknown.

23. If you give us a hug and we pull away please know that chances are we’re not rejecting you, we’re just uncomfortable. 
We may have a hard time being able to respond right now.

24. If we do pull away from you please don’t get mad. 
Tell us you care. Chances are you’ll get that hug after all!

25. If you’re together and the survivor has a flashback try not to be mad at the survivor. 
We hate the darned things too! Flashbacks are always rough. It’s difficult to know what to do. It’s got to be difficult to watch. Any anger should go the one who caused the rape and not the survivor who has to put her life together.

26. Don’t be afraid to talk to us if we’re upset. 
Knowing you are there may be just what we need.

27. If we become suicidal please don’t take that as a sign of weakness. 
Take that as a sign we’re overwhelmed, trying to cope, and need help.

28. Don’t pretend rape doesn’t happen to people you know. 
It does. Thank you for reading this to learn about it.

29. Don’t get the idea rape just happens to “those” kinds of people. 
This crime happens to as many as 1 woman in 4. It crosses ethinc, racial, economic and social boundaries.

30. Don’t be afraid of a person who was raped. 
I promise as a survivor, the rape will effect you but won’t rub off on you. The person you love is still the same person as before.

31. Don’t deny your feelings after finding out a friend was raped. 
Call a rape crisis center’s hotline and find out what support is available for you.

32. Do not tell us we should take it as a compliment. 
Rape isnt about lust or attractiveness, its an act of power and force.

33. Do not tell us “Oh yeah, I know a bunch of girls who’ve 
been raped”. 
We realize we arent the only ones but by saying that it belittles how it hurts by making it just another number.

34. Do not tell a survior “Its no big deal.” 
We know otherwise.

35. Please don’t tell us “Oh well, you’ll have other dates that will go better.” 
What happened wasn’t a bad date, it was a crime.

youlovesadtragicboys:

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holy mother fucking shit. 
this is filthy
especially the state of her bush, get a waxing.
ohh god I feel so bad when i say mean things about the dead, but seriously loot at that thing 

ugh, why ? why oh why oh why?
and btw, i love you too.

youlovesadtragicboys:

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holy mother fucking shit. 

this is filthy

especially the state of her bush, get a waxing.

ohh god I feel so bad when i say mean things about the dead, but seriously loot at that thing 

ugh, why ? why oh why oh why?

and btw, i love you too.

i was checking my mail this morning and i received a notification on who just subscribed to me.
i just woke up and immediately widen my eyes when i saw “shazalomaniac” in the name coz that’s MY NAME!
it says “WeHateShazalomanaic has just subscribed to you”

XD i ROFLed so loud on my bed like yeah

Geez, i bet it’s those lifeless malaysia youtubers; the racist, the sexist, the political faggots adn jsut those dumb asses who likes to mess around with other local youtubers.

i’ve seen cases where they impersonates other malaysian vloggers and just give bad names but a HATE-club ?
now it’s kind of an honour that i get to be the first malaysian youtuber as the hate-victim XD

anyhow, could you please file a report on this channel?
just click report, somewhere or something.

Thanx

poor kid

poor kid