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Her mother dreamt of us ._. she didn’t have any pleasant ones
a few days ago, Kents (i call my girlfriend “Kentut“now) told me her mother has been dreaming about us - twice for the past couple of weeks.
first dream was more of me pushing Kents away when she seems so helpless and kept calling for help.
secondly, me and her were just standing in the ring of fire. i was still ignoring her plee like i didn’t bother to help.
basically, this two dreams got her mom worried.
(and yes, in the dream she reaches out to her daughter in handing help)
after hearing this, i’m feeling very puzzled.
her parents seems to be unaware of our actual relation but assuming that we are best of friends.
according to Kents, her parents loves me… i guess.
and i barely have proper long conversations with the mother.
p/s: her mom is very religious and meets ustazs and stuff like that.
Help. i could barely stop thinking about this.
i just want her to have the best.
Uploaded by Madayforshort on Jan 17, 2012
5983 miles apart
i’m from Singapore
she’s from Sweden
It started with a comment on a picture of mine on Facebook.we added each other on every single social/chat sites.we talk alomost every single night trying to get to know each other closer/better.after a few months we confess to each other about our feelings and get together from then.
kissing through the camera,”hugging” the lappy as if we were hugging,pinky promises,showing off everything we bougth/got on that day is like our daily routine.
there’s some friends of us who doesn’t support having this relationship,saying shit and all that,well that doesn’t discourage us,we’ve talk about it and stay strong and always thnk positive that we can make it and show them they’re wrong toward our relationship.to see her cry whenever she got problem i try my very best to listen and wishing she was just infront of me so i could wipe her tears off and hug her.
the fisrt letter to her was with a friendship wristband,and then some gift for christmas/birthday..
i sent her a promise ring too which i could put it on her finger.
and i recieved some goods which is artistic and a plush with autographed by bmth*how awesome*
it gets so intense when we could not meet almost a year plus.we had ups and down but we manage to overcome every single problems we had.while the time passes by we learned to overcome the distance between us,the temptation of hugging and kissing,the trust we have for each other,to be patient at all times,all this things makes us stronger and looking forward
for the first meet up.
to be honest her existance really do help me change my life from a kid with not future to a better grown up,mature thinking man.i do appreaciate and treasure all her times spending on her lappy to talk to me.
This is the video that we took on our first meet up,and yeah.it’s been the greatest expirience ever in my whole entire life.the feeling when i saw her walk out the gate cant be explained.i cried through my heart with joy/happiness.the feeling i got on that point of time will always be remembered.
Camera:Canon EOS 600D
Video took by:Us,Her parents
Song:Now Now Every Children - giants (acoustic)
Programme Used:Adobe Photoshop CS5/Premiere Pro CS4/After Effect CS4
you gotta admit, this is so Tumblr picture quality right thur.
Sarinjas (Camil) and Madayforshort (Mahathir) are two people who are madly in love with each other for the past 2 years.
Maday is from Singapore, Camil is from Sweden (i suppose sometime Thailand)
They met on Facebook, fell in love, Camil came over to Singapore with her family, they also went to Thailand together, and now today Maday is in Sweden with her to celebrate their 2nd anniversary
Here’s a video that made them popular.
their long distance relationship has inspired many lovebirds.
(via madayforshort)
Inside the red box was a Kinder Joy. It’s a chocolate that most Americans will never try because your government banned it for some reason. Anyway.
This is one of ‘our’ things. This chocolate. My first thought was, ‘oh, how sweet, she references ‘our moments’.
Didn’t actually expect anything much since by this point, she have already given me the rose and the dolphin necklace.
I actually opened the chocolate first and we ate that together. She didn’t say anything.
Then I said, hey, lets see what kind of toy we got.
… And I saw the sweet note. Will you be my Valentine like forever?
I was shocked. And grinning like an idiot.
I opened that flap, and inside…
was a ring.
This was the moment when I looked at her and I couldn’t help it, I had tears in my eyes, I was that happy.
(I don’t know, I guess I thought you were incapable of being that romantic hahaha :p)
She slipped it on my ring finger (she insisted it being there).
And we hugged. I breathed in her scent. Played with her hair. Squeezed the back of her neck.
It’s not the present that made the difference. It’s the effort. Things are hard now, but now we both know we’re committed to one another.
I love you. I love you so much. Dropping you off after the date today was difficult. I’m not going to see you for at least 10 days.
But I have your ring. And I thought it was impossible, but you will be in my thoughts a lot more.
wow, i thought it was just Kinder Surprise that gets banned because i understood why but never thought Kinder Joy gets the ban too :/ meh. well research done there.
lol wasn’t sure whether referencing our “moments” with Kinder Joy was much coz the first time i got you a Kinder Joy was just out of random + we only had it once :P hehe
and i actually thought you have already figured out what i’ve done with the egg but thank goodness you literally didn’t think i have :D
element of surprise is what i was trying to give you, even thought it’s just something small :)
i was frustrated that you wanted to eat the chocolate first >.< lol
i was like “aiyaaa, ok ok eat!” - did i feed you too fast? coz i felt slightly impatient for you to open the flap hahaha
and yeah :) i insisted to place it on that particular finger because i had to mentally recall the size of that finger, making sure it fits just right. Even though the ring barely has any value, i wanna place it there coz … i suppose… yes, i am very committed to you. and i don’t think there’s any other finger that symbolizes better than what my intention are for you.
i promise you, when i’m stable enough, i’d get a better ring :)
Plus, it was so romantic that the sky started to pee heavily when i presented you your Valentines gifts :) couldn’t have done it better myself.
thank you bladderful clouds.
i love you :)
To everybody else, if you’re interested on how to make this, i’ll probably make a video in the future.
i have better idea but unfortunately Malaysia doesn’t have what i want and so this will do.
if you have this, you could give yourself a few here and there of experiments on it :)
this also a great surprise gift for proposal though ;)
she’ll never figure it out and think you’re kidding the shit out of her… and i think that’s what my gf thought when i gave her this in the red box HAHAHAHAHA could i just say that… she has just been romantically trolled?
I didn’t even get my hope up, for us to meet this Valentine’s Day.
But we did, and what you gave me… touched me. You made me cry, you bugger. You lovable bugger.
A lovely card (an LGBT one at that!), a rose plushie (spritzed with her usual scent), a dolphin necklace… and a red box.
Contents of red box in next post.
(Made MY present seem inadequate though! She’s wearing my crocheted beanie. Though to be fair I thought that she’d just get into trouble with her family if they find any evidence that we are together).
:) i’m glad you love it, your “touch-ched” face was priceless ^_^
your present is just as lovely!
it’s very thoughtful + i planned on getting a new one but thank you so much :)
it fits just as nicely, just like our hands :D !
i love you
p/s: can i have dark green / moss green colour beanie next time ? :p
that card was bought in Memory Lane, Giant Shah Alam.
i could have create the card myself but i HAD to purchase it because we don’t have enough LGBT reference cards so this is my support for it.
i’m surprised to find this card in MALAYSIA.
or do they even realise that this Valentine card is actually lesbian theme o_O ? it has rainbow and stuff
Thank you girlfriend :) for the lovely late-lunch
Thank you for bringing me to Tony Romas for the first time :)
that sandwich steak is deadly o_o but gawd gotta love the homemade french fries + bleu cheese *drool*
you have been way too so so very kind to me, i’m not sure how to top it all up.
i insist i got to do something special so i shall brainstorm on that starting… tomorrow.
i am way too full-up to function =_=
you fed me well :)
i can foresee my future with you is where hunger does not exist lol
Happy 4th Monthsary, Jiggles :)
And that’s why I love her more.
Happy 4 month anniversary, sweetheart :)
I hope you wake up to this and have the biggest smile ever.

Happy 4th Monthsary - can’t wait for food xoxo
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There are two ways to have more money: Spend less or Make more. Spending less is ‘passive’ ad making more is ‘active’.
So far I’ve been more passive than active - I do like to budget my expenses and prefer to make steady increments to savings and investments accounts.
But slowly, I hope to be more active. Ultimately, to own a few businesses.
For now, I’m content with selling some of my stuff online.
If you’re Malaysian, do check it out.
p/s - Girlfriend, you are obligated to reblog this :D The money goes to our travel fund <3
Awe girrrrlfrieeeeend <3 ilysm ^_^
OK MY MALAYSIAN FOLLOWERS (or maybe non-malaysians),
MY GF IS SELLING 2NDHAND BOOKS AND PLUS SIZE CLOTHES FOR REASONABLE PRICE.
THE MONEY IS FOR OUR TRAVEL FUND <3 PLEASE HELP US. THANK YOU :)
XOXO,
SHAZO
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